“*Dr. Kenneth Zike has said that at least 50% of the children with learning problems referred to the neurological clinic at his hospital had had no traumas, no birth injuries, and no other physical deviations. Their trouble seemed to come from pressure - pressure to do a task that they did not have the maturity to do.”

~Borrowed from Robert Jackson on the world wide web.



Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Hello all! Coming to you live from my living room couch, just wanted to let you all know I am coming along well. I will be back Friday afternoon. I will be taking the second half of the day shift.
Mrs. Parson has to be out the second half of the day on Friday and this would be the perfect time for me to return.
The surgery has taken its toll on me for sure. I am looking forward to getting back to normal!

Sitting around has given me lots of time to think about things. In particular, all the things I am not getting done for the holidays. Then, it occurred to me that this is a great time to reevaluate what the holidays actually mean to my family and most importantly to me.

I obviously can not get out to the stores to shop, shop, shop. I have come to realize that so often our children associate the holidays with gifts. As a parent myself, I want them to experience the joy. But even more, I want more for them than to just see the holidays as a chance to get presents.

Can you remember what you got your child last year for the holidays, be it Hanukkah or Christmas? I am embarrassed to say I do not. To be honest, the only gift I remember giving my children was the year my children were in 2nd and 4th grade and my husband and I purchased year Disney passes for them. I suppose I remember it because I can not tell you how many times we went to the park that year. We would leave from school and go to the parks for several hours before closing. We had so much fun together that year. The toys and such, I never remember.

During the holidays, we also do the usual bake, decorate, and spend time together. I want to do something more this year...and maybe you do to.

This holiday season, I want to focus on more traditions:
* We are going to draw names secretly of an immediate family member. During the upcoming holiday season, we are going to help one another without being asked.(Chores or with something unexpected) I want them to "give back" starting with the family. I think I am going to write my name 4 times and they all chose me. hahahaha Just kidding
* One evening we are having dinner as a picnic on the living room floor.
* Christmas movie night.
* We will share the Christmas story followed by hot cocoa. (My kids love hot cocoa!)
* One evening we will head out to view all of the lights followed by hot cocoa! :o)
* I will continue my love of holiday music from Thanksgiving through the new year!
* Baking and eating cookies. Mmmmm...
* Write new years resolutions together.
* The usual meals and Christmas tradition.

Be it Hanukkah or Christmas, make the holidays memorable for your family.
Tell me your holiday traditions. I would love to try something new! Email me!

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